What If You Get An Erection During The Massage?

Let's talk frankly about the elephant in the room ;)

Erections happen. It's a natural bodily process that occurs when a guy is in a relaxed state (aka the Parasympathetic Nervous System [click HERE for more information]). Have you ever seen a guy get hard when he's stressed out?! Right. That's because it only happens when the body and mind feel like they are in a safe, secure environment. So first I wanna say to you that it's a DIRECT CORRELATION to your relaxation, so, congratulations for being relaxed!

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My 4 Main Points About Erections During A Massage Are:
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#1: I will never chastise you for getting an erection.

It can be embarrassing "pitching a tent" during a massage. I can understand, I'm a guy :) It's happened to me as well while I'm getting a massage, so don't get it twisted!  The last thing you need is your massage therapist telling you how bad of a person you are. I will apologize for every MT that has shamed you, belittled you, or made you feel inferior or lesser than because of this. You went to get a massage to relax and/or for pain management, not to have an insecure Judge Judy projecting their feelings on you. 

#2: I'm not gonna touch it. You're not gonna touch it.

Now that we've established that you'll never get yelled at or belittled for getting an erection, don't touch it. It'll go up, it'll go down, and we'll move on. I won't stare at it, and I won't comment on it, saying "Woah, look at your raging boner!" I don't perform sexual services. Point. Blank. Period.

#3: I can avoid working on the area entirely, to mitigate the involuntary reaction.

If you're concerned that you might get an erection, and don't necessarily need any specific work on your adductors (the inner thigh) or abdominal area, I can always work around those areas. Remember, this is YOUR time, your session. You won't hurt my feelings if you need me to change up my techniques or work in another area.

#4: Erections are not necessarily an indication of feelings.

I will never assume that because your "morning wood" is roaming, that you have personal, intimate feelings for me. I will never assume that you're thinking about pornography. You're erection has nothing to do with me; it's an involuntary bodily response.

Last thoughts,

There's a high probability that the more massages you get, the higher the probability that your erections will happen less often. That's because your body will become accustomed to being worked on, and will eventually be so relaxed that it won't even happen.

So. there you go guys.